6 tips for a shared family holiday

1. Expectations

Talk about them up-front, and ensure everyone gets some of what they want, some of the time.

2. Adult time-outs

Give each adult a break (or breaks) so they can explore the things they want to do.

3. Parenting

Remain true to your own style. Children can benefit from experiencing different parenting techniques, but don’t start adopting standards that aren’t your own – the kids will only get confused.

4. Boredom and teens

It’s very important to keep teens busy – an idle teen can be problematic. Make sure there are plenty of things to do and see. You don’t want them loafing around and getting up to mischief.

5. Family time

Have days when you head off and do things separately to the other family. But give them fair notice, and encourage them to do the same so they don’t feel they’re being rejected.

6. Next holiday

Not every holiday should be shared – family rituals need to have a chance to grow, and holiday time is a great time for this to happen.

Have you been on a shared family holiday? Share your thoughts or tips in the comment field below.

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